The Art of Influence without Manipulation
Author: Rob Jolles
(Berrett-Koehler: 2013)
- Changing Minds-Changing Lives
- Inside The Minds Of Those You Are Changing
- Establishing Trust
- Urgency
- Committing To Change
- Initiating Change
- Handling Objections
- How to Change Your Mind
I'm adding this note of caution to each page of my notes because the title is misleading: the author advocates a softer approach to persuasion, but his tactics are often still manipulative. In many instances he proposes a subtler form of manipulation, but one which is still manipulative. I don't expect he has bad intentions, but lacks sufficient knowledge in the areas of rhetoric and psychology to correctly identify and avoid manipulative tactics entirely.